

Look Ma, No Hands: The best positions for stimulating the clitoris without using outside stimulation.Since every woman’s anatomy and geography is slightly different, there is no panacea-position for hitting the spot. For some women, this can be enough to bring them to orgasm, but for over 60% of women it is not. As the penis pulls out, it pulls the inner lips to the clitoris and rubs against it (pleasurable in itself). The clitoris does, in fact, get some clitoral stimulation from the act of intercourse.

Because the clitoris is positioned inches outside of the vagina, it is almost impossible for the penis to stimulate it directly during intercourse.The part which you don’t see extends down into two long legs (crura) that reach well into the inside of the body on either sides of the vulva. Luckily, this is just the part we can see! The complete clitoris is actually approximately the size of a flaccid penis - 4″ in total.It is protected by a hood and is between ½” to 2″ long - with an average of 3/4″ in length and 1/4″ in diameter. The clitoris sits outside and above the vagina where the lips come together.By far the most common question we receive at DISA is how couples can put more focus on the clit during intercourse.

Nevertheless, most women are left with the reality of needing that extra clitoral stimulation during intercourse to be able to orgasm. Perhaps there is a very good evolutionary reason for this obvious oversight, which we are not yet aware of. The location of the clit is nonessential to reproduction making it one of the only organs that has no other purpose than of pleasure. Nature has indeed played a strange joke on us humans by designing a woman with her sexual “hot spot” outside the vagina.
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